Dr Janice Moss

In Love, In Pain TOO Dr Janice Moss

IN LOVE, IN PAIN TOO is a book about women and the emotional relationship decisions they make that affect their lives, careers and families. It's a close study of how women behave in romantic relationships and takes a candid look at the destructive behaviors some women adopt while trying to find and maintain love; when the rational mind finds itself too closely in touch with the emotional seat of a woman's psyche.


Each of the five stories is a real-life scenario in which a woman finds herself faced with important decisions that will force her look at her relationships and decide whether the love she feels is worth the pain that accompanies it. Each of the five stories stops at a climatic point where the reader is provided with a list of questions, which will determine one of three possible endings. Each ending is different and yields different consequences and each woman has to make decisions about when it is appropriate for her to cut her losses and come to grips with a relationship where the love is overshadowed by pain.

In Love, In Pain Too is romance novel meets self-help guide. It is therapy 'girlfriend style'. Treat it simply as an entertaining read about women in relationships - or as a personal examination and self-analysis device that can be used as an approach to positive emotional health. Each story's designed to shed light on how a woman's behavior, especially her decisions regarding the men in her life affects her life, relationships and in many cases her children and loved ones. It should help the reader choose partners more wisely, decide what behavior is acceptable and when it is time to make that break.

This book will be especially valuable for those women who, for whatever reason, will not seek professional counseling and may be too embarrassed to discuss problems with family and friends.

In Love, In Pain Too focuses on how women respond behaviorally to what's perceived by them to be love, in order to try to keep it. The book reveals how too many women put themselves in physical, emotional, spiritual and oftentimes physical danger to stay in a relationship that is not nourishing, supportive or fulfilling. It also divulges how women can conspire against each other, by dating men who are committed to others and supporting men in dishonest actions.

Finally, Dr. Moss's book illustrates how readily women will accept crumbs and tell themselves that they should be grateful for them! Giving up what they hold dear, even when they don't get anything in return. It does not give advice as to what action each woman should take, it merely points out the consequences of various decisions. It is designed to be a non-judgmental, self-help, counseling guide, where women are empowered to make decisions on both healthy and dysfunctional relationships, allowing them to analyze their own behavior patterns and to make changes if they feel such change is necessary.