Shonda Miles

How to Love Your Spouse Again Shonda Miles

Do you remember the moment you fell in love with your spouse? Do you remember your first kiss? Do you remember the first time you said I love you? Do you remember when your spouse first said it? Do you remember why you fell in love with your spouse? Do you remember getting butterflies when you knew you were going to see your spouse? Do you remember thinking this is the person I want to spend the rest of my life with? If you haven't taken the time to think about these times, that now maybe a distant memory, now is the time. Marriage is a beautiful thing but Marriage is work-hard work. Don't believe anyone who tells you different. In Marriage, you will have your good days and your bad days. Some days you are so in love with your spouse while others you are not sure if you even like your spouse. Marriage is what you make it. The problem in most marriages is unrealistic expectations. It is natural and normal to fall in and out of love with your spouse through the course of your marriage. It is just the way it is. The key is realizing it is only temporary when you fall out of love with your spouse. Of course, there are things you can do during this time to ensure that the falling back in love again happens sooner than normal. Love is beautiful. It is a privilege to be married. If you have any doubt about this ask someone who is single. Love is an Action word. It requires us to do something. We can't say we love our spouse and our actions say something different. Love often requires us to sacrifice-when our love ones are unlovable. Look at your kids or Parents-Have they ever done something that you didn't like. Did you stop loving them? All marriages go thru ebbs and flows. Sometimes you love your spouse more than others. Do you want to be happy in your marriage again? Has your spouse become unlovable? Are you bored in your marriage? Are you ready for a change in your relationship? Has your spouse changed? Marriage inevitably goes thru good and bad times.