Robert John Bonus

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Over the course of the past several years I have studied many subjects regarding self improvement. These subjects range from life coaching and herbal medicine to hypnosis and the unconscious mind. I had spent a good part of my adult life around many people, yet felt alone. I worked various jobs trying to find something that was fulfilling. My childhood sucked, always yelling and fighting going on. Little did I know that my childhood was having a negative effect on my life. I mean I had heard people always talking about how a child's upbringing can effect their lives but never really understood what that meant. The older I got, the more empty and depressed I felt. I just didn't know how to change it all, until later.
It was back around 9 years ago that I had a profound experience, a religious type of experience some would call it. I dreamt I had met Jesus Christ. He appeared to me to give me a message. The message was that I needed to stop feeling sorry for myself and get to work. It was unclear at the time what this meant. But as He had told me to get to work, the only thing I could think of was that He meant to begin studying His word, the Bible. I did just that. I spent I guess around 3 years studying the Scriptures and found myself desiring to help others through difficult times through inspiring them with God's word. But this too, wasn't enough for me so I began taking a course on Christian Faith Counseling. I finished the courses but had found that during those courses I gained an interest in psychology and human behavior, what made people do the things that they do? This was a new direction for me, it started me down a road that would later be known to have had a purpose.
This new direction was opening my eyes, mind, and heart to brand new knowledge and understanding. The courses I had been taking were leading me to other courses and those lead to me other ones, and so on. I engulfed myself in courses and books. I became a certified Master Life Coach through two different academies, I became a certified Master Hypnotist to use as a tool in coaching. I studied Cognitive Behavior Therapy and Neuro-Linquistic Programming. All of these would eventually lead me to understanding human behavior on a much deeper level.
After receiving these certifications, I began to realize that I had finally found something that I was passionate about. People. I am passionate about people. I find the unconscious mind fascinating, yet so very powerful. It was at this time I opened a coaching practice, just as COVID-19 was surfacing and eventually became a pandemic, shutting everything down. I continued my learning through books and courses during the shutdown.
Now back to the beginning, I had finally found my passion. I finally had an understanding of why everything that happened in my life, from my childhood right up to the present time, I understand now. This is an awakening. This knowledge and understanding that I have gained is quite an eye-opener. I have finally come to terms with the fact that everyone acts based on their perception and emotions, Whatever they may be.
So what you'll find in this workbook, yes, I call it a workbook, because I want you to treat it as such. This book should have notes written on every page, notes that are written confirmations on how the questions make you feel. I give scenarios that I hope you will relate to and write down your thoughts. It is a workbook, a workbook that I hope you will open a year from now and see just how far you've come. The information within these pages is all that I have learned not only through books and courses, but life itself. My life has done a complete 360 after gaining this knowledge and understanding, yours can too. You too can change, but it all begins with you.

My Very To You,
Be Blessed
Dr. Robert J Bonus PhD
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