Mosab Alkhteb

What to Do to Toxic People Mosab Alkhteb

This is a short, to-the-point book that will teach you how to be evil. I am being dead serious. As you are reading it, you will be touched by its evilness, harshness, and power. You will feel them. You will even start seeing them in your life. And evil is one of the things that can't be unseen once seen. It will change you. If you actually saw a devil and got a glimpse of its malevolence, you would never be the same person anymore. And that's the point. You don't want to be the same naïve person anymore. You don't want to be made to feel worthless anymore. You don't want to be manipulated and gaslighted and exploited and used anymore. The toxic people who do these things have a glimpse of evil inside of them. But so are you. Surprise! Surprise! The way you protect yourself against their evil is to wake up the evil parts of you. And then tame those parts so you are strong but not a bully or an evil person. In simpler words, iron cuts iron. Fed up with toxic people or got hurt deeply by them? It's time to become their worst nightmare by using their magic against them. Remember that 'it takes a wolf to catch a wolf.'Now, let's get practical and see how this book can help you handle the toxic people in your life. From a psychological point of view, this book is supposed to help you become more disagreeable. And that can be a good thing. Because if toxic people exploit you and hurt you and you are an easy target for them or you always attract them, then it might mean you are too agreeable and need to sharpen up a bit. This book will also help you understand not only what toxic people do and say to provoke you, but also how and why that manipulates you. With this understanding, you can defuse the entire situation. You know their game, and you can choose to not participate or to play and not lose.

If you know how someone plays, and know how to play against it, you are in a position of power; their games will be jokes to you because you can handle them.

To get more practical, let me tell you what to expect: Setting boundaries using conditionsHow to not get sucked into toxic dynamicsGaslighting and silent treatmentDependence vs. IndependenceIgnoring red flagsHow to know if it is time to cut someone off and how to do it. A whole part about healthy ways to communicate in order to become healthier yourself and attract healthy, secure people. So, after all, the book contains some positive stuff and not just plain evil!More tips that will help you build your assertiveness. These topics are presented in the form of short tips. The book is 13 things you should do and consider to walk away from unhealthy relationships. And then 17 tips for healthy communication. The aforementioned points in the bullet points are some of the highlights of the book. The rest of the tips are similar. I just have to mention the fact that they are not just explained as tips; remember what I said about how you will be touched by evil in this book? I am not kidding about that. The way these tips are laid out and explained, with the goal of helping you set boundaries and protect yourself against toxic people, makes all the difference. I hope this book will help those who have toxic families. I hope it helps those who are recovering from an ugly break up with a toxic or narcissistic person. Those who have horrible friends. Those who got used and exploited by a parent, a partner, a friend, or just a random heartless stranger. Those who are in a bloody toxic work environment. The empaths. The lonely souls who can't risk trusting anyone again. Heck, even the narcissists who want to recover and make amends!!I hope it helps all those people (and many more I know nothing about their stories) find their answers and heal. And heal. And heal.